| 2014 | The Splendid Things We Planned: A Family Portrait | National Book Critics Circle Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Autobiography | |
| 2014 | Farther and Wilder: The Lost Weekends and Literary Dreams of Charles Jackson | Lambda Literary Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Gay Memoir/Biography | |
| 2014 | The Splendid Things We Planned: A Family Portrait | NPR Books We Love source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Books We Love | |
| 2014 | The Splendid Things We Planned: A Family Portrait | The Boston Globe Best Books of the Year source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Nonfiction | |
| 2010 | Cheever: A Life | Pulitzer Prize (Biography and History) source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Biography or Autobiography | |
| 2010 | Cheever: A Life | Lambda Literary Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Bisexual Nonfiction | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | National Book Critics Circle Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Winner · Biography | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | James Tait Black Prizes source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Shortlist · Biography | |
| 2009 | Cheever | Booklist Editors' Choice source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Adult Books: Biography | |
| 2009 | Cheever | New York Times 100 Notable Books source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Nonfiction | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | Los Angeles Times Best Books of the Year source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Nonfiction | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | Publishers Weekly Best Books source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Nonfiction | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | Entertainment Weekly Best Books source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Nonfiction | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | TIME Best Books of the Year source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Nonfiction | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | Publishers Weekly Best Books source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Top 10 | |
| 2009 | Cheever: A Life | Amazon Editors' Best Books of the Year source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Top 100 | |