| 2023 | Spear | Locus Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Fantasy Novel | |
| 2023 | Spear | Nebula Award (Novel, Novella and Andre Norton) source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Nominee · Novel | |
| 2023 | Spear | World Fantasy Award (Novel, Collection and Anthology) source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Nominee · Novel | |
| 2022 | Spear | Los Angeles Times Book Prizes source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Winner · Science Fiction, Fantasy & Speculative Fiction | |
| 2018 | So Lucky | The Boston Globe Best Books of the Year source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Selection · Fiction | |
| 2014 | Hild | John W. Campbell Memorial Award for Best Science Fiction Novel source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Best Science Fiction Novel | |
| 2014 | Hild: A Novel | Lambda Literary Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Finalist · Bisexual Fiction | |
| 2014 | Hild | Nebula Award (Novel, Novella and Andre Norton) source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Nominee · Novel | |
| 2013 | Hild | Otherwise Award source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Honor · Otherwise Award | |
| 2008 | And Now We Are Going to Have a Party | Lambda Literary Awards source ↗ (opens in a new tab) | Winner · Lesbian Memoir/Biography | |